A colleague sent out an email to those of us at the office who have recently had kids, asking for information and input for a friend about living in the Netherlands, especially with regard to having a baby and raising a child here. In true Krees fashion, I sent her a treatise. Then I realized that all the information (with a little opinion) might be useful to others. So here it is.
The Dutch view of pregnancy is that it's a natural part of life and
shouldn't be interfered with too much from a medical perspective. I
believe(*) that if you have a normal, healthy pregnancy, your prenatal
visits are with your local doctor / general practitioner called the
"huisarts", and not with an obstetrician or gynaecologist. I don't
happen to know how frequent the visits are or how many ultrasounds are
routinely given. (*We had complications getting pregnant, so I was able
to get a referral to the ob/gyn department of the local hospital and
have had all monthly prenatal check-ups there, including an ultrasound
at nearly every visit. Toward the end of my first pregnancy they saw me
more frequently.)
30% of Dutch women still give birth at home
with the assistance of a midwife and huisarts. This is probably more
common and available in larger cities. Both of my pregnancies have been
in small villages where there are not enough
births to keep the huisarts very practiced with birthing. I've been
required to deliver in a hospital, which is fine with me.
Maternity matters - What to expect in the Netherlands
http://www.expatica.com/nl/family/kids/Maternity-matters-_-What-to-expect-in-the-Netherlands_11936.html
Because
of the tradition of giving birth at home with a midwife, it's also not
common to use epidurals or other pain meds during labor and delivery
here. Most Dutch mothers give birth without it. Even though I was in a
hospital for my first delivery in 2007, I don't think I would have had
the option of getting an epidural because it was the middle of the
night and there may not have been an anesthesiologist available.
(Personally, my preference was to give birth without meds, and
fortunately I had a fairly easy delivery. But should it have been more
difficult, I think I would have liked to have had the option available!)
I
believe the government now requires hospitals to be able to provide
pain meds to birthing mothers who want it. The article I read, however, says
this is in the "guidelines" - which doesn't sound like law to me:
Epidurals now standard practice in Dutch hospitals
http://www.expatica.com/nl/news/local_news/Epidurals-now-standard-practice-in-Dutch-hospitals.html
If
you do give birth in the hospital and there are no complications, you
can expect to be discharged in just a few hours. However, your health
insurance covers the cost of "kraamzorg". This is post-natal care
provided by a professional nurse(?) who comes to your house every day
for the first week to make sure that you and the baby are both doing
well, that you're able to breastfeed successfully if you so choose (the
Dutch are big on breastfeeding!), and also to help with a few chores
like changing the bedsheets, cleaning the bathrooms and doing laundry
so that you can get some extra rest!
Kraamzorg - Postnatal Care in the Netherlands
http://www.expatica.com/nl/family/kids/Kraamzorg-_-Postnatal-Care-in-the-Netherlands_13313.html
I
have a higher level of health insurance which, as Charles said, has
covered almost everything, including doctor's visits, regular
ultrasounds, blood tests, labor/delivery and "kraamzorg" care. The only
pregnancy-related costs have been for a couple special ultrasounds to
check for indications of birth defects. I imagine the basic level of
health care would cover the same, but human resources should be able to
tell you.
Charles mentioned the amount of maternity leave
(4 weeks before your due date, 12 weeks after birth, all paid at your
full rate, plus [our institute] gets money to pay for your replacement while
you're on leave). I don't know if this is standard government-required
leave or if it's specific to [institute]. And he was right that if you choose to
breastfeed, they are obligated to provide a private place for you to
pump. I think most Dutch women stop at three months when they return to work, but I was
able to continue for 12 months after returning to work.
I think
it's easier to find childcare where we live than in some
other parts of the country. (It's WAY easier than in Germany where I
understand it's nearly impossible to find daycare.) There are
"kinderopvang" creches where your child goes to a nursery with lots of
other children, and there are also providers (an "oppas") who take
children into their homes.
The
government gives you money toward childcare. In our case (my husband
works full-time, I work half-time), we get something like 400+
euros/month which covers about 80% of the daycare cost. Last year the
government discovered that they had REALLY underestimated the amount of
money they would be paying out for this daycare subsidy. I thought we
would see our reimbursement drastically cut this year, but I don't
think they've cut it at all.
A short guide to childcare in Holland (Expatica)
Day-care costs through the roof (Expatica, 26 March 2008)
Cuts in child care subsidies unite opposition (Expatica, 9 September 2008)
There
are also options for returning to work part-time for nearly full-pay
during the first year for both mother and father.
All
in all, the Netherlands is a pretty good, safe place to give birth, and
it's definitely a good/supportive place to raise a child. But as
Charles mentioned, society here is also really more oriented toward
women working part-time rather than full-time (in my opinion). Shops
and banks regularly close at 6pm or earlier, are often closed Monday
mornings and at lunchtime, and are closed completely on Sundays. I
don't know how a family with two full-time workers (or even single,
full-time workers) do it. I guess that's why employees get so much vacation time - so we can do our banking and trips to
the druggist!
More info available at:
I amsterdam - Family and Health articles
http://www.iamsterdam.com/en/living/familyandhealth
Since writing this up, there have been a couple additional news items that may be of interest:
Home births as safe as hospitals
http://www.dutchnews.nl/news/archives/2009/04/home_births_as_safe_as_hospita.php
Dutch children's wellbeing best in Europe
http://www.dutchnews.nl/news/archives/2009/04/dutch_childrens_wellbeing_best.php
A few additions if you do not mind: When you deliver with just the midwife (and also have your checks with her), you see your midwife every month for the first 7 months, then every forthnight for a month and weekly in the last month. You get at least 2 ultrasounds (9 and 20 weeks)but more if necessary. Also I was told (although I delivered in an academic hospital) I could always have pain meds - fortunate I did not require one...
Also the materinity leave is the same (16 weeks in total) all over the NL, so that is not institution bound, whether you get reimbused parental leave that is different by insititution. Furthermore, next to the private room for extracting when breastfeeding, you are also allowed (during your breastfeeding period) to do so for 2 hours a day at work - full pay. Which - in my case - was transformed to cycling up and down to the nursery to feed Duko, because I hated extracting and this gave me some much-needed exercise as well...
Good job -- getting ready for nr. 2?
Posted by: Aleid | April 28, 2009 at 09:25 AM
Great info! Thanks, Aleid.
We're not yet getting ready as much as we probably ought to be. We're still discussing names, and I haven't yet picked up my birthing book for that necessary refresher. +/-7 weeks to go!
Posted by: Krees | April 29, 2009 at 10:24 PM
I've being researching about Child care and reading your blog, I found your post very helpful :) . I thought I would leave my first comment. I don't know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog!
Posted by: Child Therapy | February 01, 2010 at 05:10 PM
Hi Aleid, thanks for the blog. I would go to NL for a long term staying with my family. I have got a good idea reading your blogs about various stages. I would really liked to discuss this with my wife, as we are planning to have kids, and at that time I might be in NL. Just for information, Could you please tell me an estimate of how much it may cost in Pregnancy, and Post Pregnancy period as I have completely no idea of that, also this is missing in the blogs I've read. It would be a GREAT help for me if I know before I plan something.
Happy Motherhood!!!
Rgds,
Stilkwood
Posted by: Stilkwood | May 22, 2010 at 01:43 PM
Hey,
Dutch are very much for natural birth, the simple reason for it-it is cheap! During pregnancy woman recieves minimum of analysis, just 2 ultrasond and two blood tests. At the rest of the appointments all that midwife does, just touchs the bally and hears the heart beat. The cost of pregnancy is about 3000 euros, but most of this covered by insurance, which everyone in NL have to have. However, if you not medically prescribed to have birth in the hospital, you would have to pay it by yourself. It happens often that woman started to deliver at home, still in the middle of labor due to difficulties arose, have to go to the hospital. Of course with this approach it is not a strange thing that NL is on the first place with child and maternity death rate between EU countries. I personally decided not to have birth here and to for delivery to Germany.
Greets!
Posted by: Katerina | June 02, 2010 at 05:27 PM
It is unusual even in Netherlands are given many home births because this represents a risk to the mother and child
Posted by: tumor cells | June 15, 2010 at 05:38 PM
The kids in every country are a blessing form above the problem is that to have a kid is very expensive and if you have 3 or 4 will be terrible to every one .
Posted by: Buy Viagra | July 14, 2010 at 11:20 PM
I live in the Netherlands. My first child was born at home and my second in the hospital. I really prefer the homebirth! I was in the safety off my own home, I could walk around, take a shower etc... Everything was very relaxed. I really feel this helped a lot; I had a fairly easy delivery only 5 hours... Offcourse there was pain but it was over soon and then there was my son!
Next delivery in the hospital was VERY different. Bright light, a lot off people walking in and out off the room, being stuck to a machine... I hated it. And I was very happy to go home a few hours after his birth
Posted by: Mick | September 06, 2010 at 05:46 PM
Can someone please help me with the information for Netherlands.
1. How many % of women do the pregnancy tets:
2. How many times Pregnant women do the Ultrasound screening. (Before 12 weeks: after 12 weeks: )
3. Cost of one ultrasound screening/test ( transvaginal : Transabdominal: )
4. Cost of baby delivery at government hospital (Normal Delivery: Cesarian Delivery: )
5. Cost of baby delivery at private hospital (Normal Delivery: Cesarian Delivery: )
6. How much is the Government allowances for per baby birth:
7. Insurance coverage;
Posted by: Aziz Sheikh | April 16, 2012 at 10:15 AM