I stumbled upon this series of audio commentaries on the New York Times today. If you have 10 minutes, it's definitely worth a listen. I found myself nodding along in agreement with the things that every.single.one. of these women talked about - about how discovering you're infertile is a process, how the choice with how to proceed (infertility treatments, adoption, living childless or childfree) is different and unique for every couple, how being "infertile" (or subfertile, or identifying as infertile) doesn't go away once you have a child...everything! I hope you'll give it a listen.